The "I LOVE YOU FOREVER" bullshit.
Relationships during the teenage years are fragile. Many believe that relationships during the teenage years are impossible. But I beg to differ. They are possible. They only problem is when understanding goes out the window after a few months of being together. Patience wears thin, and every small mistake is refused admission or forgiveness. Well, personally - many may disagree - I think that building on a relationship is of a higher priority from friends. In my view, friends are important when you need someone when something goes wrong. But most friendships will always be there. A relationship may not always be there, especially when it's new. At the end of the day, it is just how the person prioritises his/her time. But personally, a new relationship should be worth building on first.
Above priorities, is limiting. There is always a limit in a relationship. Many times, couples tend to test each other and try to push the relationship and not caring about the emotional tortures that may arise. Pushing the limits by not treasuring, or getting complacent just because the level of comfort is already there.
I took a cycle down to East Coast Park today, amidst all the reckless drivers on the roads. It's romantic places like these that open you up to an envious heart from seeing loving couples stroll by the beach. Places like these motivate a better boyfriend/girlfriend out of you, and start things all over again.
Anyway, on a different note, I need to scream at the open sea. I have too many things pent up inside of me. I almost got knocked down by a car who was literally centimeters away from clipping my rear wheel and running me over. I have no idea how he missed seeing me because I wasn't in any of his blind spot. But then again, I thought about it and wished that he had just ran me over. It would end a lot of unpleasant things in my life, really. It just seems easier to give up now. Sigh.
Relationships during the teenage years are fragile. Many believe that relationships during the teenage years are impossible. But I beg to differ. They are possible. They only problem is when understanding goes out the window after a few months of being together. Patience wears thin, and every small mistake is refused admission or forgiveness. Well, personally - many may disagree - I think that building on a relationship is of a higher priority from friends. In my view, friends are important when you need someone when something goes wrong. But most friendships will always be there. A relationship may not always be there, especially when it's new. At the end of the day, it is just how the person prioritises his/her time. But personally, a new relationship should be worth building on first.
Above priorities, is limiting. There is always a limit in a relationship. Many times, couples tend to test each other and try to push the relationship and not caring about the emotional tortures that may arise. Pushing the limits by not treasuring, or getting complacent just because the level of comfort is already there.
I took a cycle down to East Coast Park today, amidst all the reckless drivers on the roads. It's romantic places like these that open you up to an envious heart from seeing loving couples stroll by the beach. Places like these motivate a better boyfriend/girlfriend out of you, and start things all over again.
Anyway, on a different note, I need to scream at the open sea. I have too many things pent up inside of me. I almost got knocked down by a car who was literally centimeters away from clipping my rear wheel and running me over. I have no idea how he missed seeing me because I wasn't in any of his blind spot. But then again, I thought about it and wished that he had just ran me over. It would end a lot of unpleasant things in my life, really. It just seems easier to give up now. Sigh.
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